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And Then I Turned 40.

A blog about reimagining.

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And Then I Turned 40…

A narrative blog on identity, love and re-imagining in mid-life.


  • 04.9
    2023

    I Feel Bad About My Hair

    Dear__ I feel bad about my hair. I had a 7 a.m. appointment to get my hair cut this morning, and when I arrived at the barber’s shop, I was nowhere to be found on her schedule. I made the appointment through an online app and had an email confirmation, which I was holding up Continue reading.

  • 01.4
    2023

    Stories We Tell

    Did you ever have a moment when you realized the stories you tell yourself about who you are no longer hold true? I recently read the book The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman. In the book, Chapman describes the five essential ways humans communicate and receive love based on his experience as a couples Continue reading.

  • 01.3
    2023

    Romance

    American Heritage Dictionary defines romantic as “having, showing, expressive of, or conducive to the feelings of love or romance.” Dictionary.com calls romance “not practical, unrealistic, fanciful.”  I thought about my relationship to the romantic recently while attending a book club. We were discussing the book Honey Girl by Morgan Rogers. In it, the protagonist finds Continue reading.

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  • Forthy-something
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  • Life Transition
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  • Pop Culture
  • Queerness
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  • This is 40
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